Ci gaban ilimin jima'i na yara ya kasance batun da aka yi nazari sosai a cikin ilimin halin dan adam, yana nunawa a cikin waÉ—annan binciken ka'idar Sigmund Freud akan Oedipus da Electra hadaddun. Wadannan matakan, wanda yawanci yakan faru tsakanin shekarun 3 da 6 shekaru, sun kasance batun muhawara da nazarin yadda suke tasiri a cikin Gina Identity, Gudanar da motsin rai da dangantaka da iyaye.
Menene Oedipus Complex?
El Hadadden Oedipus ya bayyana irin soyayyar da yaro ke yi wa mahaifiyarsa da rashin sanin ya kamata da kuma yadda yake jin kishiya ga mahaifinsa. A cewar Freud, wannan al'amari na daga cikin yaro psychosexual ci gaban kuma yana da asali a cikin lokaci mai cutarwa, wanda ke faruwa tsakanin 3 da 6 shekaru.
Freud ya yi wahayi zuwa ta tatsuniyoyi na Girka don sanya sunan wannan hadaddun bayan halayen Sarki Oedipus, wanda ya kashe mahaifinsa cikin rashin sani ya auri mahaifiyarsa. A cikin sharuÉ—É—an tunani, yaron yana jin sha'awar mahaifiyarsa kuma yana ganin uban a matsayin cikas ko kishiya wanda ke hana son su kadai.
Babban fasali na hadadden Oedipus
- Hali mai ma'ana: Yaron na iya neman kulawa ta musamman ga mahaifiyar, yana katse hulÉ—ar tsakaninta da mahaifinsa.
- Kalaman soyayya: Kalmomi kamar "Mama, ina son in aure ki" sun zama ruwan dare a wannan matakin.
- Kishi ga uba: Abubuwan kin amincewa ko rashin biyayya ga siffar uba na iya faruwa.
Wannan hadaddun abu ne na al'ada na ci gaba kuma, idan an warware shi da kyau, yaron ya watsar da gasar tare da mahaifinsa kuma ya fara gane shi, ɗaukar alamu na ɗabi'a da dabi'u waɗanda ke sauƙaƙe ci gaban tunanin tunanin su.
Menene Electra Complex?
El Compleungiyar Electra Sigar mata ce ta Oedipus Complex kuma Carl Gustav Jung ne ya kirkiro shi don bayyana yanayin jima'i inda 'yan mata ke nuna soyayya ta musamman ga mahaifinsu kuma suna kallon mahaifiyarsu a matsayin kishiya.
Wannan kalmar tana nufin tatsuniya Electra, wanda a tarihin Girkanci ya taimaki ɗan’uwansa Orestes ya ɗauki fansar mutuwar mahaifinsu, Agamemnon, da mahaifiyarsu ta kashe. Jung ya yi amfani da wannan labarin don kwatanta irin dangantakar kishiya da wasu 'yan matan suka kafa da mahaifiyarsu.
Babban fasali na Electra Complex
- fifiko ga uba: Yarinyar tana neman kulawa da ƙaunar ku sosai.
- Misalin uwa: Yana iya ƙoƙarin yin koyi da halayenku don jawo hankalin uba.
- Kishi ga uwa: Yana nuna ƙin yarda ko halin ƙin yarda ga uwa.
Idan wannan hadadden ba a warware shi yadda ya kamata ba, zai iya yin tasiri kan yadda yarinyar ke kulla alaka a rayuwarta ta balaga, kuma za ta iya neman abokiyar zama mai halaye irin na mahaifinta.
Yadda ake shawo kan Oedipus and Electra Complex
Waɗannan rukunin gidaje al'ada ne na haɓaka yara kuma dole ne a magance su hakuri da fahimta. Ga wasu shawarwari ga iyaye:
- Kar a ƙarfafa hali: Ka guji bada kai ga abin da yaron ke bukata.
- Kiyaye daidaiton soyayya: Dole ne iyaye biyu su nuna ƙauna ga juna da kuma yaron ba tare da ware ɗayan ba.
- Ƙarfafa ganewa tare da iyaye masu jinsi ɗaya: Yana da mahimmanci yara su sami abin koyi a cikin iyayensu.
Idan gyaran ya ci gaba fiye da shekarun da ake tsammani ko kuma ya haifar da rikice-rikice masu tsanani, yana iya zama da kyau a je wurin Kwararren ilimin halayyar yara.
